About the Book
“Things I Wish I Never Knew” tells the story of a woman who refused to give up, even when life seemed impossible. Shelly Little shares her journey from a small Louisiana town where she was born with a cleft palate, through years of domestic abuse, and finally to finding peace on her own terms.
This memoir takes you through Shelly’s childhood in Cajun country, where she learned to fish, farm, and survive with the help of her strong grandmother. At fifteen, she met Donald, thinking love could fix everything. Their marriage brought two children, but also years of violence and fear. Shelly raised her daughter, Lindsey, who was severely burned as a baby, while enduring her husband’s abuse and her health struggles.
The book doesn’t sabotage all the hard parts. The author writes about losing family members, facing false accusations, and feeling betrayed by people she trusted. She shares how she finally left her abusive marriage, went back to school to become a nurse, and slowly rebuilt her confidence.
Shelly doesn’t pretend to have all the answers. Instead, she shows how healing happens one small decision at a time. She talks about setting boundaries, forgiving yourself, and learning that it’s okay to be broken sometimes. “Things I Wish I Never Knew” speaks to anyone who has felt trapped, hurt, or forgotten. It reminds us that survival is brave and that starting over is always possible.
